Social anxiety is when a person feels extremely afraid of being judged by others. Also, being very self-conscious in everyday social situations or avoiding to… Read More »How to liberate yourself from social Anxiety
When we grow up or when we are growing, we start to critize ourselves and everything that we do. When we younger or children we learned from our mistakes and never repeat them.How? When a child put her hand in a fire, she feels the pain and learns that he or she must not repeat that.Also we do not judge the child but care for her when she hurts him or herself.
We often doubt ourselves and our capabilities. This often happens when we fail at something we love doing or what is expected of us to do. But this is an enemy within us fighting with us. Its often left up to us to decide whether we would continue to doubt ourselves or free ourselves from it.
There are men and women who make up the world. They do this, by being the kind of people they are. How you see the world , the way you define it, and it’s perfection is a mirror back to you and your purpose and helps you to know oneself.(Jack Canfield)
In my previous articles, I talked about How to love yourself: 10 steps . This is crucial to who you are because it’s the basis to find out who you are and embrace it. when you love yourself, you know your value.
So who am I? Asking yourself this questions will get you a lot of answers at first. Answers where you identify yourself with either your religious, nationality or educational affiliations.
Jay Shetty speaks on this and I love his saying ” I am not who I think I am, I am not who you think I am, I am who I think you think I am “. Deep right.
We tend to identify ourselves with what others say about us instead of finding our real us. The following steps will help you find out your real self.
In my previous article, How well do you know your friends? , I discussed who a friend is and how to identify one. Choosing friends… Read More »Friendship: How to relate with your friends in 5 steps.
We meet people in the cars, bus stop, colleges, primary or elementary school, high school, workplaces food joints among others. We then bond and become friends to the extent of sometimes forgetting how we met.
The beauty are regarded
The ugly are disregarded
The weak are bullied
The strong are worshiped…………………………..